By: Abby Allen

   This winter, students at Marriotts Ridge are constructing their Christmas wishlists for friends, family, and relatives. Hundreds of students have already submitted the lists to their parents and are waiting to receive their requests this holiday season. For every wishlist, there is a list of items students are planning to give to those that they love. But, is the love felt when getting a gift surmountable to the satisfaction of giving someone an item off their wishlist? 

   With the variety of winter holidays that students celebrate, there comes a multitude of people to give to this season, whether it be parents, teachers, friends, or siblings. Most students have already drafted a list of items they hope to get, and handed it out to those they care about, hoping for a list in return. When asked about what they were wishing for, responses ranged from

new hoodies to iPads and Macbooks. In contrast, when asked what they were giving, students said things like: their presence, love, and quality time. Though it is fine to give a small gift, most will make handwritten cards and letters to make their loved ones feel known and loved. 

   A handwritten card is the most authentic way to show appreciation, with materials most have in their homes. Giving can be hard, especially for students without jobs. This might be why receiving is more significant in schools, and the main topic of discussion in December.

   Many are more excited for what they are getting. Getting gifts is something everyone looks forward to, whether it’s for a birthday or for an anniversary. 

   On the other hand, “I plan on giving my mom a pair of flowy pants, she saw I have them and she really wants a pair” senior Ella Groff says.

   Groff went on to explain how giving gifts makes her feel happy, and fulfilled. Being able to give to a family member, and show how much attention has been paid, and care has been put in, is one of the joys of life, and having relationships with others. The feeling of joy and satisfaction

when giving is unmatched, making other people feel loved only happens so many times throughout life. 

   “When I give a gift I feel a sense of happiness knowing that other people feel valued, and I can be the one to invoke that feeling,” senior Grace Kang says.

   Giving is truly one of the easiest, but still significant ways to show love. Through this, it seems to be hard to decide whether giving or receiving is better. This leads to one conclusion; both are amazing. Giving and receiving will always occur at the same time, each party on either side. Since each is amazing, this holiday season, everyone should feel complete, whether they give or get.